Is a physical relationship important in love? If not, why is it limited to the body today?

If you mean physical relationship in love, before physical marriage, then my answer will be "no". !!!!!! . Love does not require physical relationships. Love has its beauty, expresses itself in so many beautiful ways. Differently ..

Look into the eyes of your loved one. Try taking them in your hands. All those things of the heart that you could not do to anyone, tell them .. Love is not just a physical relationship. Who knows? This later emerged as a deep friendship over the years.

That love is when two lovers put their eyes in their eyes, they say to each other without saying anything. Like the heartbeat is not in control…. Love is love Do not roll it into a groove. Your true love will never force you into such relationships.

Many people would call such ideas as orthodox ideas. If a boy truly loves a girl, be sure that he will keep it in the same way that someone keeps a holy book in the temple of his house, not under a pillow like a cheap novel. I would like to make him feel as safe as he gets his sister!

If two people have faith in their relationship then they themselves will avoid crossing any kind of boundary. If a girl falls into physical relations before marriage, she is surrounded by many kinds of insecurities! She realizes that her lover no longer gives her the same respect as before, she begins to eat what would happen if their relationship did not result in marriage? If a problem like pregnancy comes from above, then its fear and trouble are different. I have seen girls or boys deny this blasphemous saying that the whole world is doing this, what if I have done it?

Well if you are so modern, then allow your sister, brother, son, daughter to do the same thing as you do with your girlfriend. Look at the scales in which you weigh others.

Today society is changing! Now that young people marry late, the importance of sex relations cannot be denied. But what about those children between the ages of 14 and 22 who commit all these mistakes. Because she does not understand nor identify the reality of her partner. So how can such relations be justified? If our daughter disobeys these rules, then we also remember our Indianness and the false mask of modernity that comes out of our mouth also comes out of our mouth.

Not making sexual relations in premarital love is not an old-fashioned thinking, but the priceless values ​​given to us by our society are positive thoughts. Because of these ideas, weddings are successful in our country today….

Remember, touch also has its own memory. Which never forgets us, even if we forget it on the top. But when such a boy or girl gets married to another partner, then there is tension in their marriage, because, in a subconscious mind, they do not forget that touch. Together, mind comparison starts, then marriages start breaking up! But in the name of being the so-called modern, in the name of running away from our responsibilities, in the name of doing the Ayyashi, the practice we are supporting will not give anything meaningful to the society, it will only be the moral downfall of the society.

6 Reasons Why SEX Before Marriage Affects a Relationship

We are sexual beings and that is why sex has always been, is and will be a matter of great importance, especially because it is a common desire in everyone. Sex is also one of the greatest tools of intimacy between the couple and that is why it has a great influence in the mood between the two. Unfortunately, sex has been seen as something bad, impure, tiring, selfish and even fleshly for many couples who stop having sex after marriage.

What many don’t know is that behind this bad reputation about sex is linked to the fact of having sex before marriage. When the couple does not wait for the wedding night to have sex, usually the following happens:

1. Sex gives the couple intimacy at the wrong time. In the minds of many, they don’t have to win over the other person and now that they slept with their partner, they no longer need to make any effort to conquer him/her – he/she already gave everything they had to give. That’s why many begin to be possessive, jealous and even controlling. They live as if they belonged to each other without wanting to commit to marriage.
2. For women sex usually means a complete surrender to the guy and she creates expectations that he will surrender to her too, but no. She starts to behave as if she is won over but also feels undervalued in the relationship. He doesn’t give her as much attention as she gives him. He doesn’t commit to her as she does to him. Many never get married, for what? They already have everything!
3. The sexual act between two people who are not married is usually to satisfy themselves and not their partner, it ends up not being enjoyable as it should be. That is why many women after getting married don’t have the desire for sex, they associate sex as something selfish. Fatigue or stress is a reason to deny intimacy to her husband for several days, weeks and even months — and when she does, it’s by obligation.
4. Not everyone who has sex before marriage gets married, this means it’s possible that you are giving some of your most intimate moments to a person who will not be with you for the rest of your life, and this boyfriend or fiance can be part of your sexual baggage. I was impressed to read about a survey done in the United States, where it was discovered that the women carry a bit of the DNA from each sexual partner, and this DNA is part of the children she may have…
5. Another possibility is the undesired or “desired” pregnancy. Those who get pregnant unintentionally, completely change direction and become a mother at the wrong time. Without being ready, she is scared of possibly having to raise a child alone and may even get married with the first guy who is interested. The one that willingly gets pregnant without their partner knowing puts him against the wall, and he ends up marrying her just because she is pregnant. They will always have this between them… “he only married me because I was pregnant”, “I was not ready to get married, I will live life as a single even if I have the title of husband”. Not to mention that they both never had a life together before they began a life of three… no time to adapt, no preparation, the relationship is always in conflict.
6. And the sexually transmitted diseases… no one speaks about the subject but there is a lot of people carrying incurable diseases out there!

The man who respects you enough to wait for the wedding night shows that he values you above his physical needs. He has the profile of a husband that you want and need.

The wedding night doesn’t need to be one more night, it can be THE NIGHT. You can both surrender completely, without holding back, without doubt, fear or afraid of the next morning. The first time that he/she touches you will be because he/she valued you first and not because he/she had a simple attraction for you. It will be the beginning of a life together, only you two!

Friends who are still virgins:

A dear friend of Renato and I likes to say, you don’t need to lose your virginity, simply give it to your husband/wife — that way, you will always know where she/he is. 

Friends who are no longer virgins:

Don’t continue to do what’s wrong. It’s never too late to stop doing what’s wrong and start doing what is right.

Kerala to Intensify Fight Against Online Child Sex Racket Under Operation 'Big Daddy'

Rahul and Resmi rose to fame after organizing Kiss of Love protests in Kerala, which were to protest against the rising incidents of moral policing

Two days after Kerala police busted an online sex racket involving 'Kiss of Love' organisers, it is getting ready to intensify their drive against flesh trade through internet under operation 'Big Daddy'.

As part of the state-wide operation, carried out with the support of cyber police, five members of an online sex trafficking gang have landed in police custody last month and 13 of another group, comprising 'Kiss of Love' organiser-couple Rahul Pasupalan and Reshmi, on Wednesday.

Besides ensuring the safety of children in the society including in the family, school, tuition class or any other public place, the operation 'Big Daddy' is also envisaged to check the trafficking of minors from other states for flesh trade by anti-social elements.

State DGP T P Senkumar said the operation 'Big Daddy' was launched three months ago with an aim to check the abuse of children using online platforms.

"The safety and security of children has become a major concern in this era of internet. Operation Big Daddy is a vigilant step from the side of Kerala police to ensure the safety of children. We are planning to intensify it now," he told PTI.

The police chief said children, parents or any others can pass on information about any kind of abuse or exploitation to the police through his official Facebook page or police website or by contacting designated officials.

Earlier, Senkumar wrote in his Facebook page that the operation 'Big Daddy' was all set to intervene in any issues of children which they faced in home, school or public places and protect them.

He said a special police team with the support of cyber police held five-members of an online sex racket last month for alleged posting of obscene comments and pictures against women and children on some Facebook pages and free classified sites like Locanto.

Based on the information got from them, the other online sex racket was busted, he said.

As many as 13 persons including 'Kiss of Love' organisers Rahul and Reshmi were arrested in simultaneous raids conducted in various parts of the state on Wednesday.

                                                      - News from http://www.newindianexpress.com/

Why Premarital Sex is wrong ?

Dear Friends,

Let me start addressing this topic by associating the taboo of premarital sex with another analogous taboo. But before that let me make it clear that I will not deal this question from a religious or moral point of view; the point of view that I am going to take is that of promoting human life.

The taboo of premarital sex is quite akin to the taboo of incest. Ask yourself - Is incest wrong? Today, most of us (including me, of course) will say- yes, it is wrong. But why is it wrong? Let us keep all the religious reasons, if any, aside. Science has made it abundantly clear that reproduction undertaken by people closely related by blood can result in children with congenital birth defects. 

Human civilizations observed it long ago. But incest was once a ubiquitous fact among human beings, just as it has always been in animal kingdom. So the society had to deal with the problem. For the prosperity of human civilization, incest had to be eradicated. But even after knowing the horrible results of incest, human beings often fell prey to lust even within families. As a result of that, there emerged, in every human civilization all over the planet, the taboo of/against incest. Societies made incestuous behavior appear immoral, and those who indulged in it were made to be seen as people of loose moral character and were disowned. People do it even today, when they swear at someone, calling them - mother f**ker, bhen c**d (sorry for using absurd words), they empower the taboo of incest. The taboo of incest has done wonders. It has eradicated incest from societies to such a great extent that most of us are so disgusted by incest that we do not even let the idea of incest cross our mind.

Suppose societies did not create this taboo, and instead introduced condom, asking all those wanting to involve in incestuous sex use condoms so that they don't reproduce while still enjoy the act. Would the problem have been properly addressed? No. People would have skipped condoms (just as they do today in the wake of HIV danger) and the problem of incest would have persisted. Incest must be dealt as taboo, that's the most effective solution available to the human civilization for dealing with this problem. Now let us move on to the problem of premarital sex.

Due to many Sexually Transmitted Diseases that human civilization confronts today, it is necessary that integrity in sexual relationships is favored, while infidelity is loathed. 
To promote and nurture integrity within sexual relationships, the institution of marriage is created. The institution of marriage makes sure that fidelity to sexual relationships is socially binding. In a society which permits sexual intercourse only within this institution, people (who are serious about their health and are wary of dangers of promiscuity) are less likely to get cheated into sex by sexual omnivores. 

All those actions ( such as premarital sex,rape, adultery) that are detrimental to the strength of the institution of marriage must be dealt as taboos. Humanity must unite against them. Condoms, pills cannot and have failed to properly address the problem of STDs. The solution lies in taming the animalistic nature of human desire.   I am a moral philosopher and I do believe in right or wrong.And at present I am right.And awaring the people for the right cause to Say '' No to Sex Before Marriage''.There are many moral reasons behind this revolution but I don't want to mention them right now.Hope now you all know came to know why I started this revolution. (Please forward this blog to your friends and ask them to join and promote this revolution for the bright future of your country)#RevolutionaryGBU  #NoSEXbeforeMarriage  #AvoidPremaritalSex  

Why would you say there's nothing wrong in premarital sex?

If there's nothing wrong, then why the following are considered wrong?



1. Sex outside of marriage
2. Incest
3. Sex with a prostitute or anyone

We can now have protected sex with condoms and if both agree, there shouldn't be anything wrong with the above three.

Sex outside of marriage should be fine if we are having it for fun and we are loyal to our partner. It would be 'conservatism' if our partner still doubt on our love.

Incest. There should be nothing wrong with this if the two agree. We have condoms and we won't have any harmful disease.

Why these all are considered a taboo? If they are a taboo, why premarital sex isn't a taboo?

Please think about it and I hope that you all came to the conclusion that SEX Before Marriage i.e Premarital Sex should be avoided.

SEX Before Marriage is WRONG..!!!!!

We have considered ten practical reasons why you should avoid sex before marriage which are coming soon in upcoming Blog. But there is one reason that is more important than all those ten reasons (in upcoming Blog): It is wrong!

It is wrong because God says it is sin. Nothing can change that. Sin is that which is contrary to God’s will. God has said that all sex outside of marriage is sin. Sex between two unmarried people is called “fornication.” It is one of the most damaging sins. The Bible says,

“Flee fornication...he that commits fornication sins against his own body”
(1 Corinthians 6:18).

God says that all forms of normal or perverted sex outside of marriage are sin. People say, “Times have changed,” but God has not changed, nor has He changed His mind about these things. The Bible says,

“Marriage is honorable in all, and the marriage bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge”                               (Hebrews 13:4).

“Do not be deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind [homosexuals]…shall inherit the kingdom of God”       (1 Corinthians 6:9,10).

GOD Wants Us To Have The BEST

Many young people do not understand why God tells us not to engage in sex before marriage. Some even think that God does not want us to enjoy sex, but this is not true at all.

The truth is that God gave commandments concerning sex, not to keep us from enjoying it, but in order that we might enjoy sex to the fullest and over the longest period of time.

To illustrate what we mean, let us think about trains. Some of the fastest trains in the world are in Japan. These trains regularly run at 120 miles per hour and at times they hit 155 miles per hour!

How can these trains attain such speeds? The reason is that they run on tracks that are superbly designed and skillfully built. The tracks enable these trains to run at their maximum speed.

Suppose one of these trains would say, “I’m tired of running on these old tracks. They are too restricting. I want to be free to go where I want to go and do what I want to do.” So this train jumps the tracks and heads out across a rice paddy.

This train is truly free now— no longer bound by those tracks. Yes, it is free all right, but it is not running at 120 miles an hour. In fact, it is not running at all. Instead, it is lying there in the mud. And that is where it will remain until a power greater than it picks it up, cleans it up, and puts it back on the tracks.

That is the way it is with sex. God has laid down “tracks”—not to keep you from enjoying sex, but that you might enjoy sex to the fullest and over the longest period of time in marriage. Satan offers you the thrill of “jumping the tracks,” but you end up in the mud.

If it is God’s plan for you to be married, He has just the right person in mind for you. When you walk down the aisle on your wedding day to seal your vows before a holy God, you will be glad that you kept yourself pure.

Someone reading this may be saying, “I have already jumped the tracks. Is there any hope for me?”

Yes, there is hope for you! Jesus Christ can pick you up out of the mud of your sins and failures, clean you up, and put you back on the tracks.

GOD's EXAMPLE OF FORGIVENESS

On one occasion, some religious leaders brought to Jesus a woman who was guilty of adultery. They threw this woman at the feet of Jesus and said, “Teacher, this woman was caught in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses, in the law, commanded that she should be put to death by throwing stones at her. But what do you say?”

These men did not care about this woman. They were simply using her as a means of getting Jesus into trouble. If Jesus said, “Do not stone her,” He would be going against the law of Moses. If He said, “Put her to death,” He would be in trouble with the Roman government.

GOD did not answer them right away. He kneeled down and began writing in the sand. When these men continued to press Jesus for a decision, He stood up and said, “He who is without sin among you, let him throw the first stone.”

Those who heard Him were convicted by their consciences and left, one by one. Jesus forgave this woman of her sins and said to her, “Go and sin no more.”

#5. Five Myths About People Who Wait Until Marriage to Have Sex

#5 – All people who wait are preachy hypocrites

The Myth

Lots of young people try to wait until marriage and then give up. There are some personalities that were never really compatible with the whole idea of waiting. When somebody with an incompatible personality tries to force themselves to wait, they often do so using very harsh language in their own minds. They beat and chastise themselves into doing what they have become convinced is proper. And when they are challenged on it, they lash out and lecture others using all the harsh words they use against themselves.

They become the preachy, holier-than-thou types that everybody hates. And then, because their whole decision is based on fear and repression, they cave, over and over again. One minute they’ll be calling some girl a slut, and the next minute they’ll be having sex in the church bathroom, and then two days later they’ll be chastising themselves for it and lashing out at others again.

One day, they hurtfully condemn one of their classmates who happens to be a future Hollywood screenwriter, or the friend of a future screenwriter. And then that writer grows up to make movies and TV shows portraying abstinent people as cruel hypocrites; her revenge against her High School tormentors. The writer’s passionately vicious portrayal sticks in the minds of moviegoers, and helps solidify the stereotype of an abstinent person.

The Reality

There’s a vast difference between people who say they’re waiting till marriage in high school, and those who continue to maintain their decision after they’ve graduated. The latter are the real waiters. And those tend to be very sweet, kindhearted people, not angry preachy types.

As mentioned above, it is often the people who fail miserably at waiting who are the most vocal about it. The successful waiters, the ones who survive high school with their decision intact, who are kind and unpreachy and don’t judge others for their own actions…those people tend to keep their decision to themselves. But we are the silent majority when it comes to waiting till marriage.